WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: 

In 5 minutes a day, you’ll uncover:  

✅  Why your arguments repeat—no matter how calm you try to be
✅  The fear driving your reactions (and how to name it)  
✅. How to spot the moment things flip—and stop the spiral  
✅  Scripts to say what you actually feel (without triggering shutdowns or blame)    
✅  How to reconnect—even when you're walking on emotional eggshells

WHAT YOU'LL GET: 

📧 7 Punchy, No Fluff Emails that get to the heart of the cycle.

🛠️ Micro-Exercises that actually shift your dynamic - in real time.

💬 Therapist Designed Tools for high-functioning, emotionally drained couples

📝 Short reflections, not essays, to help you turn insight into action - designed for real people with full lives

THIS IS FOR YOU IF... 

• You’re always the one trying to fix things
• You tiptoe around hard topics to keep the peace
• You miss the way it used to feel—and want to stop wondering if it's too late
• You’re ready to shift the dynamic—even if your partner isn’t doing this with you

 "I created this free course because this is exactly where I start with my private clients. These are the tools I’ve seen change relationships in real time. These are the same insights I use in my own marriage. This isn’t fluff. It’s how you stop the same fight before it starts.

Dr. Rachel Orleck

Hi, I'm Dr. Rachel!

Dr. Rachel Orleck is a licensed psychologist and relationship coach who helps smart, capable people break out of painful conflict loops and reconnect—with clarity, honesty, and nervous system-level repair. She’s the host of the Coupled With… podcast and creator of the Disarm & Repair Method. She’s worked with hundreds of couples and individuals who are tired of tiptoeing, tired of tension, and ready to feel close again—without losing themselves in the process.

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You don’t need a perfect partner. You need a better pattern. And it works—because connection doesn’t RSVP to chaos.

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